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    Ok Have a dating question

    Hey guys, so I have a question about dating. What is the biggest age gap you would go to date someone. I went back to school this week, and a cute 18 to 19 year old girl has a major crush on me. She always looking at me laughing at my dumb jokes, while she doesn't with anyone else. She for some reason decided to touch my shoulder and my chair to sit back down. I personally have never dated, and am a total virgin with girls. Should I or not I think that is a big gap. My parents of course are like hell ya. But wanted some other input. Thanks guys Brian

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    Ok going to take this as a no.
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    You neglected to give your age, so kind of hard to give an answer

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    Quote Originally Posted by kneedragger32 View Post
    You neglected to give your age, so kind of hard to give an answer
    Sorry very good point lol. I am 32 but guess I look younger then I am. She thought I was 21 until I told her

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    Not sure why you'd ask this question on a mobile phone forum, but if it helps you...I was 35 when I met my wife who just turned 19 at the time. We've been married 20 years. I was married once before and was divorced about a year when I met her. She was a manager at a retail clothing store so I thought she was mid-20's, and she thought I was in my 20's too. We unexpectedly have a lot in common.

    Also, her parents are 15 years older than me, so it wasn't awkward when I met them, although her mother did have a lot of concerns at first due to the age difference.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MRothaus View Post
    Not sure why you'd ask this question on a mobile phone forum, but if it helps you...I was 35 when I met my wife who just turned 19 at the time. We've been married 20 years. I was married once before and was divorced about a year when I met her. She was a manager at a retail clothing store so I thought she was mid-20's, and she thought I was in my 20's too. We unexpectedly have a lot in common.

    Also, her parents are 15 years older than me, so it wasn't awkward when I met them, although her mother did have a lot of concerns at first due to the age difference.
    Thanks for the input. Only reason I asked on here was more unbiased feedback. My parents are not at all they want me to have a gf already after 32 years. My bf isn't either since all he cares about is the "fun parts" lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by BKKloppenborg View Post
    Thanks for the input. Only reason I asked on here was more unbiased feedback. My parents are not at all they want me to have a gf already after 32 years. My bf isn't either since all he cares about is the "fun parts" lol
    Does she know you have a bf? That could be a deal breaker for her. If it's not, go for it, y'all are pretty close in age maturity wise. My grandfather is 13 years older than my grandmother, my uncle is 20 years older than my aunt. They're all still happily married

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    I ment best friend I not sure if she does have a boyfriend but she isn't acting like it.

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    Define "fun parts". If you're saying you are less than totally heterosexual, be honest with her and tell her.

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    If she is already 18, so I have no idea why you can`t date with this girl. And love has no gaps Good luck, bro!

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    Confusing info OP. If you OP have a bf tell her. If not take her to coffee you need the practice.
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    Well small update she asked me for my number while in class last study group. It was her birthday yesterday she is 18 now wow lol. I do need the practice. What I ment to say about my friend is he only thinks with his **** I am looking for more. So that is why I didn't ask him. Guess I will see where it goes from here. Good God wish me luck keeping up with her with a cane. God what does she see in me.

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    I am confused by such a difference in age, not due to the fact that someone is older and someone is too young. I am confused by how many common interests you have, how you like to spend your free time (many 20 year old girls like night clubs and concerts, and people over 30 often prefer a healthy sleep). There are exceptions, but it's worth a closer look at these details.

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